Just Wait it out - Patience is a virtue. When facing an impossible task/decision, Sleep on it.
When you marry, you marry a family. Make sure it’s a good one. When you have kids, you’ll truly understand what it’s like to love someone more than yourself.
You are not Old! You’re a 9 year old Adult (on my 27th birthday - This is more of a statement than advice, but it changed my outlook).
Whatever it is that you want to do, Do it now. - Worrying is not doing. Just Start.
Keep Receipts, Document everything. You never know when you may need it. Take Photos, even if you think you don’t look good. It will pass & you will have saved a memory.
Cook - so you can feed yourself, stay healthy, save money & entertain others. Eat like royalty but dress modestly.
Say No to Credit. Debt ties you down. Learn to budget.
Don’t tell others your plans.
Don’t judge a person based on a single action. People are more complex than that. Anyone can have a bad day. It’s not always about you. Learn to listen.
The World doesn’t ‘owe’ You. You are not entitled to anything. You want something, work for it. Then work some more.
Happiness is a choice you make everyday not an outcome. Choose to be happy & love yourself, so that others can love you. Avoid negative people.
Travel, Teach, Volunteer, Read (a lot), try new things & make mistakes while you are young - it will help you mature & keep you humble.
Don’t hold grudges. It’s hard but if you want to succeed you cannot hold grudges. Let it go. Harbor compassion instead.
Ya Allah ❤
I love you… Xoxo